Remnants of a Broken Heart!

Relationships in this generation sometimes go too far. Young couples in love say things and treat each other as if they are married without a TRUE commitment. In the end this can lead to severe pain and heart ache because you have given too much.

Gone are the days of light hearted courtship and chivalry...BUT what is so wrong with setting your standards and making this the norm again?

No matter where you are or what you've been in it's NEVER too late to start new. You're given a new grace and mercy with every passing SECOND. You are sooo loved by your creator. Give him your broken heart and SEIZE THE DAY!

With Love,
ChanAnd

The Company You Keep

Dictionary.com Keep means "to hold or retain in one's possession; hold as one's own: Ifyou like it, keep it. Keep the change".

The people around you are a reflection of who you are and who you will be. Do you like what you see?

Are you turning negative? Bitter? Jealous? Envious? Stupid? *Take a look at your friends*

What are they bringing to your life?

Bad company corrupts good character and hinders you from fulfilling your destiny.

Don't be afraid to let go. You will be blessed with the best, IF you let go of the mess!!

Xx,

Chan

Broaden Prospects and Possibilities!

In life we often feel we need people. This won't happen without (blank), I need (blank) to get through. BUT I'm encouraged and want to encourage you!

Your source is your creator. He will lead you to the resources (people, places, etc) you need to succeed.

Stay on the right path and BROADEN YOUR PROSPECTS AND POSSIBILITIES!!

In due time, it will all come together.

The time is now!!

Persist!!

Don't throw in the towel!

If your life was a movie and you could see how it will all happen, you'd be so disappointed to see your dreams ALMOST come true because you were seconds, minutes, hours, days or mere months away BUT didn't PERSIST!!

Keep the faith!!

Xx,

Chan

Focus Taylor, Focus!!

Taylor often had times where it was hard for her to focus on her homework after school. We would always tell her, "Focus Taylor! FOCUS!!!"

Every time the t.v. was on or if someone got up, she would stop what she was doing and be all in their business.

This glimmer of hope is to encourage you to FOCUS Taylors!! When people get up and walk away from you, when things aren't going too smooth, when life throws a curveball.....STAY FOCUSED!!

Eyes on the prize!

Xx,

Chan

Use what you have!!

When you've been rejected, when you see no way to get to your goal......don't be discouraged. Use what you have, stay focused and press on.

You have a special gift, with the guidance of the Father there will be no failure. Your dream may be delayed but definitely not deferred.

Peace and love,

Chan

P.S- A story with a glimmer of hope

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWG6zNf4xY0

Monday, February 25, 2008 AGITATE!!

Black history month is coming to an end but I can NEVER forget something Booker T said about provoking change!

HE said "If you want things changed..AGITATE,AGITATE, AGITATE!!"

Don't stop, stay persistent and see the results:)

uesday, February 26, 2008 It’s not even raining anymore!

NYC weather forecast showed 100% chance of percipitation today and I was finishing up my castings and around 1:30 it started to lightly drizzle. I got off the bus and put my umbrella up instantly.

The walk home from the stop is about 3 minutes and after 1 minute I realized that tho the ground was wet and it HAD BEEN raining it WAS NOT raining anymore. I put my umbrella down and there was not 1 drop of rain on it.

Sometimes we walk around like its raining when if we open our eyes and look around we will realize it is NOT RAINING ANYMORE!!

Love you all,

ChanAnd

Sunday, March 30, 2008 KEEP MOVING KEEP MOVING.....

KEEP MOVING FORWARD!!!!!! TA-DAH!!!!!!!!!

No matter how much failure, no matter how many dissapointments and let downs. Don’t focus on the negatives...let go of the past and keep moving forward!

Its never to late to ask for help and/or implement a new plan!!

You can do it!!!!!!!!!

Love you all

Tuesday, April 08, 2008 BUT I just LOVEEE him!!

This past Tuesday I started to tackle one of my dreams and part of conquering it required "sessions"

My first session the teacher was so great and tho I had the option of finishing the course in 6 days, I almost decided to draw it out over weeks JUST so I could have him again......BUT I forced myself to go the next day AND I’m glad I did!

The teacher the next day was NOT only BETTER but also became an important referall for my future endeavors!

What I’m saying is don’t get so comfortable now that you don’t get up and go forward to the next thing because you could have something BETTER than you think!

I know, I know, you love him BUT remember when it comes to time-you never know how much you have...so keep moving forward!!

Love you all,

Channy Chan!

Sunday, April 20, 2008 BE STILL!

Emotions are designed to move you to do and say certain things BUT sometimes we must learn to close our mouths and BE STILL!

Timing is everything and if you can learn that you can control your emotions and take authority over your situation you can be VICTORIOUS at every turn!

When someone hurts you, when they reject you, when you feel let down BE STILL and know who you are and whose you are! No one can snuff the light out inside of you w/out your permission!

Stay positive, remain hopeful, BE STILL and remember who you are!

Love you all,

ChanAnd

Sunday, April 27, 2008 When the learning is done.....

School days--you learn and learn and learn, but after the learning is done there comes the day when everything you've learned is challenged

You have a TEST!

In life when you learn new things especially those positive and important to succeeding, know that you will be TESTED to see if you fully get it!

Don't be afraid, you know the answers and if you fail the test, learn from your mistake and should you get a re-do you are sure to pass!

Love you all,

ChanAnd

808's and Heartbreaks? NO PAIN IS FOREVER!

Everyone goes through heart ache. Some more severe than others....

You may feel like you can't get out of bad, can't eat, can't sleep, but know NO PAIN IS FOREVER!!

Allow yourself the time to pout and cry but start to rebuild and meditate on a brighter day.

Before you know it you'll have pulled yourself out of that pit and be able to go on and later help someone else!!

Happy New Year!!

HEY! Just Relax.....

There are times when you'll feel like everyone has turned their back on you and people you once called friends may sell you out for others BUT don't dwell on negative things.

Focus your mind on positive thoughts, forget about the past and think positively about where you're headed.

If there was nothing left for you to do on Earth you'd be dead already. 

Dust yourself off, get up and get to work! 

Your destiny awaits you:)

Busy Busy

I've been busy and haven't had access to a computer during my travels to update. Only the internet on my cell which has a mind all its own.

The message today is simple: create a plan, write it down and execute!

Love you all:)

Don't Even Trip!

ONCE UPON A TIME THERE WAS A CHANNING WHO TRIED TO CONTROL PEOPLE. WHO WOULD GET MAD WHEN THEY DID THINGS THAT THEY SHOULDN'T. 

SHE WANTED TO ''RING THE ALARM" WHENEVER SHE PUT TIME INTO SOMEONE AND SAW THEY WERE PUTTING TIME INTO SOMEONE ELSE.

AND THEN TODAY I HAD ANOTHER TEST...THERE IT WAS IN MY FACE!!!

WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO CHANNING? WHAT ARE YOU GONNA SAY?

I TOLD HIM TO ''HAVE FUN'' B/C TODAY REMINDED ME TO REMIND MYSELF :I AM A DIVINE CREATION.

I DON'T NEED A MAN'S VALIDATION B/C I'M NOT HIS CREATION. I AM WORTH EVERY, HUG, TEXT, I LOVE YOU, FAITHFULNESS, DATE AND CONVERSATION!

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELF?

WHEN YOU KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE SOMETHING WHEN SOMEONE DOES SOMETHING OUT OF LINE---YOU DON'T EVEN TRIP!

DON'T QUESTION IT, DON'T GET MAD IT....

STAY SILENT AND SECURE, MOVE ON AND BE STRONG!

YOU'RE WORTH IT!

XX,

CHAN

THAT'S HOW YOU'RE GONNA SPEND YOUR WHOLE LIFE HUH?

I HAVE  A BEAUTIFUL FRIEND WHO'S A GO GETTER, HARD WORKING SELF SUFFICIENT WOMAN BUT SHE HAS 1 CHARACTER FLAW THAT CAN BE DETRIMENTAL--INSECURITY!

I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW THIS BLOG MAY READ FUNNY BUT SERIOUSLY....

ARE YOU GOING TO SPEND YOUR WHOLE LIFE WORRIED ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU?

ARE YOU GONNA GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO "STUNT" AND I DO MEAN STUNT B/C THAT STUFF YOU'RE STUNTING IS JUST THAT A STUNT, AN ACT...ARE YOU THINKING OF THE CONSEQUENCES?

DON'T YOU KNOW YOU'RE WASTING TIME?

IS THAT THE BEST YOU CAN DO?

WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?

WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE AND IF THIS APPLIES TO YOU I'M TALKIN TO YOU TOO!

ONLY YOU WILL BE THERE TO ACCOUNT FOR WHAT YOU'VE DONE ON EARTH. ONLY YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY. 

ARE YOU GONNA BE STANDIN AT JUDGEMENT LOOKIN STUPID?

ARE YOU GONNA LEAVE THIS EARTH UNFULFILLED?

CHANGE YOUR WAYS AND STOP SACRIFICING YOUR SANITY FOR THE SAKE OF LOOKING GOOD IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE OR ''HATERS''.....FOCUS!

WHEN THE LEARNING IS DONE 4/27/08

School days--you learn and learn and learn, but after the learning is done there comes the day when everything you've learned is challenged

You have a TEST!

In life when you learn new things especially those positive and important to succeeding, know that you will be TESTED to see if you fully get it!

Don't be afraid, you know the answers and if you fail the test, learn from your mistake and should you get a re-do you are sure to pass!

Love you all,

ChanAnd

IT'S BEEN A LONG TIME! 7/4/08

It's been a long time waiting and you feel like giving up but don't throw in the towel yet

Remain focused, remember why you started working towards the dream in the 1st place, reach for your goals and reflect on your past in order to learn how to go about your future..........

REFLECT on the past BUT don't live in it always move forward

The best is yet to come

 

Love you all,

ChanAnd

Sun Still Shines! 7/18/08

No matter what curve balls life may throw at you. No matter how much pain you may feel right now

The sun still shines and opportunity is still there

Opportunity for you to rise above, opportunity for you to accomplish all your hearts desires

Opportunity...as long as you are breathing and the sun is shininng, even if it begins to rain for days at a time you still have an opportunity

An opporunity to change and an opportunity to make a difference

My question to you is "What are YOU doing?"

 

Love you all,

ChanAnd