I've probably posted something similar to this earlier BUT I don't think I really applied it.....
There are some things you're not going to understand in life, and at times you're going to feel like everything is happening to you.
In relationships (sometimes) people will lie to you, steal from you, never talk to you and then ask for a "favor", betray you, manipulate you and flat out have your mind going in circles!
BUT if you can understand that all of this is happening for you and not TO you, you can have hope for tomorrow.
What do I mean by for you? I mean if all the above mentioned things do happen to you. Your coat of skin for life, which should be THICK, will become gator skin. And after a while you will finally see everything coming full circle AND the way you want it.
You'll appreciate the new things, new relationships, and the doors opening. But the only way that will happen is if you endure those hard times realizing the things you thought were happening TO you were really working FOR you.
2 comments:
damn Chan! i went through your whole blog in 1 lunch break! I LOVE IT!!!
i dedicate my last post to you! mwazzzz
hmmmm....never really thought of things this way before...NOw i def agree on and have thought of somewhere around the "gator-skin" anecdote but the complete lesson hadnt really POPPEd in there yet...but i suppose its the youth clouding my judgement before?
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