Thursday, August 7, 2008

BLOG TEARS PART 2

Okay I remembered where I was going now...okay so this guy was my dream (I think I'm throwing up in my mouth right now for being mushy lol)

My point was...when you really love someone and you are honest in your relationship with them. And it ends for reasons that are beyond your control. LET THEM GO!

I loved him YES was IN LOVE too, but at the end of the day I had to realize I am a target with an aim. My aim was pre-destined before I got here and my feelings can't get in the way, and he can't get in the way and my EMOTIONS can't get in the way either. I had to CONTROL MYSELF and keep it movin...

Like T.I said "don't be a groupie, keep it movin" because honestly and again quoting T.I "you don't know me"

Why does he not know me and why may your ex or whatever not really know you?

Because if the person really realized how good you were and all the things you did behind the scenes (fasting for them, prayin, cookin, cleantin--sayin like Madea lol) they would still be there and if they aren't it's THEIR loss

You def shouldn't be the one crying! And I know it takes time to get over it so you got 30 minutes to cry it out, talk it out, write that person a letter if it makes you feel better and then GET OVER IT

Because time is precious and there is none to waste on someone who ain't thinkin bout you

Stay focused and watch your dreams come true;)

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am proud of you. Now the world will really get the opportunity to know and understand the inner beauty of you. You keep this up Channing and never ever get discouraged. Write something every single day, no matter what type of mood you are in. You never know how simple words can manage to save a person's life. I'm proud of you.

Anonymous said...

I love your blogs Chan and this one I can truly relate to on a personal level. You said it just as it should be said. When is the book debut, lol? BTW...I saw the fashion show today in Collierville. It was nice.

ChanAnd said...

AAh you saw the show? Lol did I look crazy I almost busted my head in my heels!!!LOl the book will be as soon as I get my blog viewer count higher. My cousin writes and I have a few friends published nw and unless you front the start up its hard. Publisher want to see that u have an audience. So spread the word about this blog so I can hit the presses! LOl

FlyyGurl said...

Wow! I was petty much surfing the blogger sites, bored, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE you blog! what influences you all the time to stay so positive?