So I got a response on blog tears part 2 asking what keeps me so positive, and to make a SUPER long story short I will say it is from leading a life style that could have been self destructive, the death of people my age that I was super close 2.
I then began a process of changing, and understanding that my thoughts create my words, which create my actions which turn into habits.
More on that later.....lol
Back to the topic, I had to comment about relationships....personally, everyone who knows me knows I DO NOT believe in boyfriends and girlfriends. Not so much the fact of being with someone but the title and the drama associated with it. I do believe in exclusive relationships and depending on where you are in life OPEN relationships...yeah I said it lol but I also said DEPENDS
Back to what I REFUSE TO DO tho....I refuse to invade a man's place b/c we are dating, snoop through his phone/bags/house/car, ask questions about other girls in his life, beg for ANYTHING, call excessively, ring the alarm(like Beyonce), and/or do any harm to him and set him up!
There comes a point when you have to be secure, secure in yourself, secure in what you have to offer, and realize (no matter how much you like the guy) that if he loves and respects you he won't do anything to jeopardize a future with you. As long as you keep your mind on that there's no need to act crazy! Insecurity and jealousy is rooted in fear and why be afraid of someone you're dating?
What goes around comes around, so just relax, stop stressing and enjoy/learn from your relationships.
It's never too late to start fresh!!
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